How To Be Strong Without Being The “Bad Guy” Being strong without coming off as a rude or hurtful can be a difficult tightrope to walk for anyone in a position of authority. It can be equally tough when one is not in a position of authority, but must establish a strong stance to make…
Continue readingPracticing to be Nobody-But-Yourself ‘To be nobody-but-yourself in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you everybody else – means to fight the hardest battle which any human can fight; and never stop fighting.’ e.e.cummings I resolved many years ago that I would be the me that I had been…
Continue readingImportance of Defining Success in Your Life We live in a media-driven world where many stereotypes of success are relentlessly thrust at us. At times these stories and these images can confuse us, and we can find ourselves at times pursuing a pattern of success that is not correctly aligned to what we have been…
Continue readingThings To Remember When Life’s Really Kicking You In The Ass I hear so many people whingeing about the economy – that they are unable to get a job, that there is no opportunity or that they don’t seem to be able to earn enough money. The overriding word evident in their vocabulary is ‘CAN’T’!…
Continue readinghow to be more confident in yourself In some situations you’re feeling totally certain about yourself, while in other situations you doubt every move you make. Some days your confidence is high, while other days it’s low. Does it have to be like this? Does confidence have to vary or is there something better? The…
Continue readingHow To Avoid The Premature Birth Of Your Dreams and how To Birthing Your BIG Dream Successfully One of the challenges that those of us who have dreams often face, is to clearly understand timing. But as an avid vegetable gardener (and I even have a stainless steel shovel to prove it) I have come…
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