Ways to Improve Your Decision Making This week, in Slate’s popular Dear Prudence advice column, a young man wrote in asking for advice on his future. He wants to go back to school to earn his bachelor’s degree, and has his wife’s support, but is worried about the risks involved in changing his life. As…
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How to challenge yourself to start living your best life every day It is so easy to allow our lives to be pushed around by circumstances, to be carried along by the rushing river of each day, or to be tossed around by the crashing waves of life, as it happens, like a piece of…
Life never happens in a straight line, Rather than life happening to you, you will happen to life Zig-zag progression tends to be the way things come to pass. Well at least that’s my experience to date. Life is more like a yacht race, rather than a straight out sprint. Daily you have to respond…
How To Turn Your Mess Into Your Message Pain is something that we would all like to avoid. My wife often says that if God had created men to bear children, there wouldn’t be any – children that is. She’s not wrong. I’m living proof of this fact. When our first child was being born,…
How to Stop People-Pleasing It’s 7p.m. and you’re just leaving work—again. Your spouse will be furious, your kids will be disappointed, and you’re mad at yourself for your inability to say NO—to anyone. Your boss asked for a favor, and even though you were already up to your neck in paperwork you once again agreed…
Breaking The Cycle Of Self-Pity: To Taking Control Of Your Life As a boy I struggled with all three of these giants. They particularly played a dominant role in my life when I was nine years old and my parents decided to invite a twelve-year-old boy to live with us. Being super-athletic, on the very…